Happy anniversary! 2 years, can you believe it? Sometimes it feels like it's been lifetimes, and other times it feels like we were just living in Condo Row watching White Collar together, doesn't it? I never used to believe it when people said, "I'm more in love with my husband every day..." or "We're so much more in love today than when we said 'I do'". I thought these were just sappy romantic phrases they used to convince themselves that they were happy with their lives. But I get it now. I mean, I really get it.
Getting engaged to and marrying you two years ago made so much sense when I made those choices. Everything was so easy with you and I just felt like with you by my side I could do anything in the world. But I didn't realize yet what that meant for the rest of my life. I think that Heavenly Father knew how lucky I was to be married to you and he's now requiring more of me than he's ever required before because he knows that with you, I can handle more than I was ever capable of before. (What a compliment to you from Him!) Sometimes as a couple we hate this, of course, because it means a lot of outside stress on our relationship that we could obviously do without, but I think we're both growing together as people who are going to become better able to be the hands of God and serve his children than we ever thought we would.
I'm forever grateful for your incredible (sometimes unbelievable) work ethic. I don't get how you can work a full day at the MTC, come home and grab a quick bite, then work at least another half day well into the night on school or your start-up projects. However you do it, it's allowed me to feel stable and secure in our finances and our future. I never worry that you'll be able to provide for us and a future family, which is pretty amazing, because I worry about everything, haha. Having the financial security we have right now and you being able to keep moving up at the MTC has also been a lifesaver with all the medical expenses that are just through the roof right now, and I love you for never making me feel bad about incurring them.
Sometimes I think about the way we function and I'm just baffled by how strong you are. Literally. I don't understand it. On days when I'm too beaten down to get out of bed, or I'm hopeless about the pain ever going away, or the program has just become too much for me to handle, you're able to keep your spirits high and lift me up as well. Again, I don't get how you do it, but I don't know what I'd do without it. You have a gift for helping me see the good things about life and pushing me to keep going with hope for the future. I can't wait to see that gift put to use with our kids. I'm so glad they'll have a rock of positive support and love to come to when they're feeling down.
I love that you love to teach. Whether it's teaching your siblings to fly-fish, teaching me how to do things on my computer, teaching lessons, or wherever you use that talent, I love it! You're so generous with wanting others to succeed and you're so patient with people when they don't quite get it. You have a gift for making learning interesting and fun, and it's so obvious to me why you want to go into that for your career. It's fun to watch you be so passionate about how others learn and how you can make it the best for them.
Of course there are other things I love about you, but these are the few that have been rolling around my head for the past little while. The biggest one, as always, is your commitment. There have been a lot of reasons and excuses for you to walk away from this relationship the past two years--whether emotionally or physically--and you never have. You've stayed on days when I've done nothing but sleep because I'm in pain, you've stayed on days when I didn't have the emotional or mental capacity to listen to you at the end of my day, you've stayed on days when I wanted to give up, you've stayed on days when this chronic pain seemed to be ruining our lives, and you've stayed on days when I thought I was completely unlovable and someone would have to be crazy to stay with me. Your sweetness and tenderness with me during my hardest times have helped me truly believe that I'm worth loving and that life can be a beautiful thing, regardless of whatever trial we have at the current moment, especially when we lean on each other.
I don't think I believed people before when they talked about falling more in love with their spouse everyday, because I didn't understand that to weather life's storms and come out happy, you have to lean on your spouse and let them into the most vulnerable parts of your soul so they can help you heal them. And after having such an intimate experience with each other, how could you not be more in love in the end? So I can honestly say to you today, "I fall more and more in love with you every day since we got married. I never could have imagined the kind of love I've experienced with you, but it's so much more than my imagination was capable of!"
I love you, sweetheart. Thank you for always standing by me and loving me more than I ever could have believed. Happy Anniversary!!